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Posted on Wednesday, July 23 2008 @ 04:08:08 Eastern

 Well, today I start my hormone therapy. There are a lot of crazy side effects with brain chemistry and my body. They say its like reversing male puberty, and then going through female puberty and menopause for two years. Awkward. Anyways, this blog is gonna be about being transgender as it pertains to gaming.

   For example, if you have played with me on XBL recently, I may have asked a general question about your knowledge about "transgendered". Something  along the lines of "What do you know or what have you heard about "transgender"? The response was pretty much what I'm used to getting IRL but with a gaming spin.

   The most prominent response was a tie between "F'in queer!" and "Fags don't play games!" Pretty much expected this sort of thing so I just brushed it off.

   The next thing that appeared most commonly was "I have a/n INSERT RELATION who is transgender." With the odds currently at 1 in 22,000 of people being transgender, this was bound to happen among the millions who inhabit XBL. Immediatley after that the most common response was "Shut up and play" or "meh." Again I was playing the odds and sort of expected this too.

   However, the other response that I got was very much a shock to me. With all of my country's boasting of tolerance and "Freedom of BLANK", Americans were the most closeminded that I "met" during my survey. The people who I found to be the most open minded were infact people from other countries. At least those who spoke English, because as a typical American, the only other language I know is enough Spanish to sell things. The Canadians and the British were probably the most jovial and open minded with responses numbering about 15 for "pics" and equally as much said something like "I'm sorry for you" which implied, to me, a good understanding of the disorder. Following closely were some German, Aussies, and one woman from North Africa who told me that the disorder goes largely unrecognized there. I only say "following closely" because there were fewer of those mentioned than there were Brits or Canadians.

   It should be noted however that while gender was not taken into account, as my survey had nothing to do with participants gender, it should be noted that of those who were unawares, a good 30% were willing to learn.

   What my little survery tells me, I have no idea, I just thought it was interesting that the people who claim to be so open minded are either completly intollerant or unaware of the plight of a section of the population that have a crippling birth defect. CURIOUSER AND CURIOUSER...

 

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  • schimmel
    schimmel

    Joined: Nov 2005
    Posted: Jul 23rd, 2008 at 12:45 pm
    Good luck with the therapy, I have a friend who is going through the reverse of what you're doing, he was a she and is gradually becoming more and more of a man. He's had the mastectomy and has been on hormones for the past year. He seems to be doing well, sometimes his emotions get out of whack but other than that he's dealing well. I know a lot of people can be really closed minded when they claim to be open minded but as the person on XBL said, I'm sorry for you, but pleased that there is now a way for you to feel comfortable. Keep us posted.
  • Nick_Tan
    Nick_Tan

    Joined: Jul 2006
    Posted: Jul 24th, 2008 at 1:30 pm
    I hope the hormone replacement therapy doesn't have too many undesired side effects. I'm going to guess that you identify with being transsexual, though many transgendered people don't particularly like that categorization. Anyway, I find Americans to be one of the least progressive people among the people of first-world countries. We have a discrimination against not only LGBT groups, but Latinos and the elderly. It's a deep-rooted feeling in America which labels people who are different as immediately defective and inferior. It happens all over the world, of course, but lashing out against certain groups with one-liners is far too accepted as "cool" in America.
  • Lentium
    Lentium

    Joined: Jan 2008
    Posted: Jul 24th, 2008 at 3:09 pm
    I hope the best for you. I can't even imagine what it must be like. And yes, boys on the net can be little bastards. Just look at our forum! stay classy!
  • Lentium
    Lentium

    Joined: Jan 2008
    Posted: Jul 24th, 2008 at 3:10 pm
    *stay classy
  • LinksOcarina
    LinksOcarina

    Joined: Nov 2005
    Posted: Jul 24th, 2008 at 3:58 pm
    I hope all goes well for you, Winempire. I wish I could apologize for my country, because I am in total agreement with what was said basically. The U.S always proclaims to be free and tolerant of others, yet were always oppressive to what we don't understand or fear. I have friends who identify themselves as female's even if they are males (the gay community in NY is very strong and from my experience, open about it.) but I must confess that none see themselves as transgendered. While I know little about it as say others might, I will say that there should be no discrimination towards people of any type of background. In the end the labels we give ourselves are just that, a label. If we cast them away, I think the U.S will at least be more tolerant of other people.
  • gamer83
    gamer83

    Joined: Jul 2008
    Posted: Jul 24th, 2008 at 4:00 pm
    What you need understand, though is that people are entitled to their own opinions as you are. This is America and in America you can't go around forcing your opinions on other people. I don't remember anybody ever saying that America is full of people who are openminded about anything.
  • De-Ting
    De-Ting

    Joined: Nov 2006
    Posted: Jul 24th, 2008 at 4:01 pm
    God bless America.for we really need it. Anyway, I have no negative feelings for transgenders, I just treat them like normal people, as should everyone.
  • LinksOcarina
    LinksOcarina

    Joined: Nov 2005
    Posted: Jul 24th, 2008 at 4:08 pm
    People are entitled to an opinion, and that is a good thing. But at the same time, when people begin to bother others by verbal abuse or things of that nature, that is when opinions become somewhat dangerous and hateful, and people lose their respect for you. To be open minded one must look beyond what the believe. They don't have to accept it, but they need to tolerate it and one thing the U.S sadly lacks when compared to other countries is toleration of others.
  • winempire003
    winempire003

    Joined: Jun 2007
    Posted: Jul 24th, 2008 at 8:34 pm
    @gamer: thanks for responding honestly, but in response to you I never said anyone had to be open minded, I only asked a question and posted the responses to that question along with my response, @ people who said America is not tolerant: I know but that's what makes this country, Its okay to think in a way that is socially unacceptable, It helps me and others to make life a little more eventful
  • winempire003
    winempire003

    Joined: Jun 2007
    Posted: Jul 24th, 2008 at 8:36 pm
    also thanks for the well wishing, Let me know if you want to keep updated
  • Duke_Ferris
    Duke_Ferris

    Joined: Apr 1996
    Posted: Jul 25th, 2008 at 9:42 am
    wow. sounds rough. good luck to you. frag the intolerant.
  • winempire003
    winempire003

    Joined: Jun 2007
    Posted: Jul 25th, 2008 at 12:07 pm
    thanks Duke, Death to those who think Differently!
  • Solaris10
    Solaris10

    Joined: Mar 2008
    Posted: Jul 25th, 2008 at 6:59 pm
    Keep it up. Hormones and genes in our body tells us what we are. The only choice we have is either embrace it or hide it. Instead of trying to hide it.you embrace it. That takes a lot of courage and I am impressed by people as courageous as you. I have the courage to say I am not that comfortable with the whole gay or transgendered community but I will never never talk bad about them. I always feel wrong when I hear someone who wants to change sex or seeing 2 guys or 2 girls kissing. BUT, They are people and they have the rights to live and feels good just as anyone else. That I understood and it is in the duty of everyone to not necessarily feels right about it but at least, try to do an effort to understand. I can't say I love them, but I respect them and in turn I respect you. May all goes well for you and that you finnaly become what you should have been in the first place. Tell us when you will get better and when all is complete!
  • MagnusNordir
    MagnusNordir

    Joined: May 2008
    Posted: Jul 26th, 2008 at 8:39 am
    Shut up and play. Seriously, this is why I hate people like you (be they transgender, ***gots, racists, ******s, furries or whatever) - you just have to shove your **** in everyone's face. Srsly, do you think people log on to XBL to hear about transgendered people? NO, they log in to PLAY FUCKING GAMES. Take your (proverbial) ***gotry somewhere people care. I don't hate you for what you are, I hate you for assuming everyone cares or should care about it.
  • winempire003
    winempire003

    Joined: Jun 2007
    Posted: Jul 26th, 2008 at 5:54 pm
    the point wasn't to interrupt play, I asked only during waiting periods between matches and I was only curious about people knowledge, its not like I gave them negative feedback on their XBL profile, I was only curious and besides, don't you care about what people think about what you feel passionately about anyways thanks for the response Magnus, alternative viewpoints are always appreciated
  • darron14
    darron14

    Joined: Jul 2008
    Posted: Jul 27th, 2008 at 12:33 pm
    Hey, I am really looking up to you right now. I, myself am gay, but I live in a country with heavy stigma, so 'coming out' is like risking my life. I always figured that it would be better to live in the states, but this is actually affecting that decision. I don't really care where I live but once I can live without constantly having to worry about myself. I'm happy for you though. For being so open about this is shows your strength, keep it up! I wish you the best of luck :D
  • winempire003
    winempire003

    Joined: Jun 2007
    Posted: Jul 27th, 2008 at 2:36 pm
    @darron: I'm sorry that you live in a place that doesn't allow people to express themselves. Coming out here is not like risking your life at all, people, for the most part, are understanding and there are parts of the country inhabited mostly by the GLBT community, it is probably one of the safest environments in the world to be yourself, except in some cases, but for the most part it is good place to be yourself BUT PLEASE DO YOUR RESEARCH FIRST, THINK AHEAD. Good Luck to you and I hope that you find freedom from persecution.
  • Uver
    Uver

    Joined: Feb 2007
    Posted: Jul 27th, 2008 at 6:58 pm
    Magnus, Id just like to say, you're the typical prick other countries view Americans as, ignorant to everyone elses ideas or way of life and things like that. Youre probably one of the kids who calls everyone else gay just because you can. Wine, id just like to say that I wish you the best on the hard times you face
  • winempire003
    winempire003

    Joined: Jun 2007
    Posted: Jul 27th, 2008 at 7:29 pm
    thanks uver, but it's ok for Magnus to think and say that, its his right as a human being on this planet and I respect his opinion as much as anyone esle's. Thanks Uver. I hope everything in your life pans out too :)
  • bloodiedmirror
    bloodiedmirror

    Joined: Nov 2005
    Posted: Jul 28th, 2008 at 7:29 am
    Have to say I was surprised to find a blog like this on GR, just as I'm sure most XBL players were surprised to be asked. Power to you for not only making your decision, and best of luck to you on your treatments, but also for discussing it openly to this forum. I know only a bit about transgendered, mainly learned from books and articles, but from what I do know it's obvious things are never easy no matter where you are. It can be disheartening how intolerant America as a whole can seem, but at the same time I sometimes find tolerant people in the places I would least expect. Just seems that those frightened by differences still yell loudest. Best of luck to you and let us know how treatment goes.
  • MattAY
    MattAY

    Joined: Mar 2006
    Posted: Jul 28th, 2008 at 12:01 pm
    Good luck winempire! Dont worry about Magnus, he must have his own problems to act like a dick squeezer. Hope all goes well for you friend!
  • winempire003
    winempire003

    Joined: Jun 2007
    Posted: Jul 28th, 2008 at 12:06 pm
    Yeah some players were like "HUH? ARE YOU HIGH?" I was in the south(Georgia and Alabama) not too long ago and found a couple of salons that didn't even flinch and even a gay bar in the Georgia mountains. Simply amazing where you can find open minded people. Even on GR :) Thanks bloodied, and i hope everything is well on you end too.
  • jc00l
    jc00l

    Joined: Dec 2006
    Posted: Jul 28th, 2008 at 12:42 pm
    Wow! i am just speachless, i never thought i would meet a transgendered person let alone over the internet. I hope that every thing works out for you and wish you the best.
  • winempire003
    winempire003

    Joined: Jun 2007
    Posted: Jul 28th, 2008 at 6:05 pm
    hehe what am I a leprechaun? thanks jc, I hope your adventures go well too. BTW all, I'm Alexia(yes thats my legal name). Nice to meet you.
  • ShadeTail
    ShadeTail

    Joined: Nov 2006
    Posted: Jul 28th, 2008 at 10:14 pm
    There was a time when I considered that maybe I was transgendered. I decided I wasn't, but I definitely have a pretty powerful understanding of what it means and how it feels. Personally, I think the "shut up and play" crowd is more dangerous than the "f-in queer" crowd, because hiding it and keeping it invisible is much more insidious than overt hate.
  • winempire003
    winempire003

    Joined: Jun 2007
    Posted: Jul 28th, 2008 at 11:38 pm
    hmmm I think you have a point there cuz I can defend against the outright hate but I can't defend against the hate that never gets expressed. also good on ya for looking in yourself and deciding who you are for yourself. interesting thought tho, something I think everyone should contemplate for themselves

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